Leave it to a chick to come to the startling realization that dating women is not particularly easy. The comments about relationships and "patience" are so on-target it's scary.
It's easy enough to understand the dating scene once you understand:
a) there is no such thing as a "soul mate" who can read your mind,
b) it's actually pretty easy to con people into thinking you are their "soul mate" who can read his/her mind, and
c) smart con artists don't stick with one sucker, as even the densest sucker eventually starts to see through the con game.